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Mary L. Grisolia
1945 - 2023
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This book is dedicated to our “Little Mom”
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I love you Grandmom. I will forever treasure our memories and your love.,
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This page is dedicated to my mom’s baby sister, who passed when she was 18. My mom never got over the lost of Leelee, she adored her. She was kind, funny and loving.
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Mom when she was young
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“A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other “. Mom and Dad’s 40 year anniversary. Love yous❣️
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I can write for a lifetime about my mom "little Mary." But if I was to describe her in a short paragraph Id take from Galatians 5:22-23 and use these 9 words: She was love, she had joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, lots of faith, mildness, and self-control. She was a blessing to have as a mother. Love you Mom
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Thursday, March 9, 2023
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You were the most beautiful person, inside and out. Your advice was always so heartfelt, and everything you did came from the deepest of love. You were so understanding, kind, and gentle. You taught me to always be kind and never hold a grudge. We loved sharing spiritual thoughts together. It’s so hard not having you here anymore. We had a special bond, and I was your helper, but you helped me so much more than you will ever know. You taught me so much about life when I was very young, liking helping with Vinnie and Ashlie. Going with you on cleaning and catering jobs, it was hard work, but you always new how to make it fun. You taught me the importance of hard work and how to take care of myself. I am the mother and grandmother that I am today because of you. I love Tanya
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Thursday, March 9, 2023
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Dancing with my Mom was one of the things I loved and will miss. Love you Mom
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Thursday, March 9, 2023
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One of my favorite pics of us..
Love you and miss you more then words can say mom, David
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Thursday, March 9, 2023
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Mom and Dad when they got married ❣️
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My favorite picture of Mom with Dad❣️
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Vinni Grisolia posted a condolence
Thursday, March 9, 2023
Mom, I can write for a lifetime about my mom “little Mary.” But if I was to describe her in a short paragraph, I’d take from Galatians 5:22-23 and use these 9 words. She was love, she had joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, lots of faith, mildness, and self-control. She was a blessing to have as a mother. Love Vinni
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Monday, March 6, 2023
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At such a young age this beautiful, loving, little lady became my Mom. Our journey together didn't always have the comfort of an easy life. Like her putting me in a drawer as a bed or us having to bundle up when there was no heat. I remember living with Mommie (grandma) and five of us in one little room and family members sleeping everywhere (this is something I have done all my life and love). Many times growing up I was around things a child shouldn't have seen. My mom was young and had a rough childhood herself. My mom took on many roles for me, she was my best friend, sister and at times I even felt I was the mom and she was my child. I would call my grandmother Mommie and my mom Mary until I was 8. Mom, when you decided to redirect our journey to a healthier and safer lifestyle, you set a better example for me and I adore you for that. I learned from your love and mistakes, those experiences taught me valuable lessons and an appreciation for life. I wouldn't change anything. It made me who I am as a person. You and Dad have passed down great examples to all of us. Examples like never giving up, love, forgiveness, kindness, and being a family. We all love being parents and being with each other, because of you.
Mom, I promise to love and look after my siblings. I know I can't take your place, but I will be here for them as long as I am alive. There were days when I was younger, I would have anxieties and crazy thoughts, just not being with you.
Now I find myself thinking and wishing I was there when you took your last breath, it hurts so bad. I had just told you I would be back fast, but death snatched you away faster. It's so unreal. I miss you calling for me, peeking your head in and smiling, asking me for sweets, always saying just a little piece. Now every morning when I come down I feel I can still see and hear you like you're really standing there, but you're not. You loved everything tiny, dogs, turtles, cats and the list goes on. The truth is I'm going to miss everything about you. You always would send little writings of how much you loved your kids, grandkids and family. I saved a lot of them, they mean the world to me.
Our journey started when you were 17 and became my mom. We shared a lot of first time experiences( Mom, Grandma and a Great grandmother, also your first child married. You started my love for dark chocolate double coconut eggs, crocheting, animals, babies ,especially coffee and many more. Recently Dad bought me a pack of the coconut eggs and it made me an emotional mess. It's shocking how life teaches us that even the smallest things become so dear and meaningful when the person you loved and shared them with is gone. We were even pregnant together. I was pregnant with my first when you were pregnant with your last. I'm so happy I shared that experience with you mom. Now you left me physically at 77, but I am blessed to have had you in my life for 60 years. I am grateful that you and dad moved in. You got to see all your kids, grandkids, great grandkids and family everyday. For you to be able to enjoy that is a beautiful blessing, and I'm glad that we all could give you that. Our journey will continue in all my thoughts, decisions, actions and life itself until the day I hope to see you again and continue physically with a big hug that I won't ever let go.
Mom, you touched so many that there were over 500 people observing your funeral. They all said positive things, like you made them feel welcomed, loved and were kind to them. How beautiful is that? To have an impact on so many.
Mom, thank you for all the love and time you shared not only with me, but with my dad, siblings, grandkids, great grandchildren and family. I will cherish all our first and all our last memories. Until we meet again.
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Monday, March 6, 2023
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All of my memories with my grandma are highlighted with genuine love and positivity and it is extremely comforting to know that my grandmother had that impact on myself and the world. I feel I can go on and on but will always fail to express the beauty I found in her character. She was too marvelous for words.
If you speak to anyone, they never fail to mention just how sweet of a person my grandmother was. She had a sixth sense in that she could easily notice when someone was down and knew just what to say or do to help them along. She always gave a listening ear, and her empathic ways were constantly on display. I can recall the courtesy she showed to my girlfriend's mother who was ill and would go out of her way to check in on her. She really cared. I wish I could reiterate to her now just how much that meant to us. I always appreciated all the things she gave to me. I never realized how much meaning something as simple as a pillow or a book could have. Sentimental value truly is the highest value.
So much time has snuck by, and I find myself thinking back to the days when my Grandparents lived on Snyder Ave where Gram taught me how to blow a bubble with gum. When I chew gum now, the thought of her is always nearby. I am so glad that this memory has stuck with me. This was around time in my life when my hair was much lighter. I can recall Gram commenting on my hair and would say that she was looking for a color that was like mine. I am not sure she ever found a color that she truly loved. There was also a very memorable ice cream parlor called JoJo's that made my visits to my grandparents that much sweeter. I wish I could relive these invaluable moments.
All throughout my life I can't remember a single time where my grandmother did not have a dog. We shared a passion for dogs. When I got my new pup, she gave me a book to read (PetSpeak). We would discuss things like the impact that body language and energy had on communicating with a dog and Gram would always give me advice on how to train my pup. Not having her here to bounce ideas off is mind boggling.
When Gram moved to Lindenwold it was a blessing to have her close. I would often find myself admiring her relationship with Gramp. It was beautiful to observe and the inspirational model that they have set has had and will continue to have a ripple effect. Their relationship was symbiotic and one to strive for. I wish I could share with her my thoughts on how great of an example she provided for our family and how thankful I am
I always got a kick out of the times she would call on us younger ones to help her with her phone or wifi, then would send us off feeling like we just cured world hunger after we fixed it. Wow. How I'm going to miss the entertainment of her giving Unk Vin an ear beating for not allowing Lucia a treat or telling Gramp to cut it out when he would poke fun at someone. I can still hear her saying to them "Aww, come on Vince!" or "Stop Jim!".
I'll miss having gouda cheese with her and serving her pina coladas. She always gave the best compliments when she enjoyed something we made. One of the things that I may miss most is her peeking in from next door to check on my mom calling out "Gi?". I remember the conversations we shared about my mom and us pushing her to get her health in order. She would tell me "Keep an eye on Mom. She never thinks about herself".
She always wanted my mom to take some time to enjoy herself and I aim to see that through.
In going through the grueling process that is grieving a quote has stuck with me.
"Grief must be a reflection of love. It is perhaps the ultimate proof of it." Having a family that is very close may be the most precious part of my life.
However, the idea that one day you will have to face losing them is heartbreaking. It brings tears to my eyes when I think about my grandmother reiterating the phrase "Death is truly an enemy." This notion has never been truer than in recent times. Life is finite. Death is potentially around every corner for us all. Hug your loved ones not only out of custom but with the idea that the embrace you share could be your last. Cherish the memories, hold them dear, share them often, let one another know the extent of your love.
Gram, you will always have a very special place in my heart. I feel eternally fortunate to have had you in my life for 27 years. Your kindness and love were contagious, and your absence has left me with a desire to pass on compassion to others as you did. You have imprinted a delight on the world that is now immortalized in stories. Thank you for the experience. I love you, Gram. I promise to look after my mom as we always discussed.
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Lucia and Mommom , so much love and affection
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Her Loving Family:
Daughter- Maria Johnson, wife of Mario Grandchildren- Travis, Justin, Whitney, Brandon, Tara, and Evan Great-Grandchildren-Jailen, Amaya, Angel, Brandon, Caleb, Jayden, Jovanni, Natalia, Ysabella, Ethan, Ezekial, Eliana, Louis, and Victoria Daughter- Tanya Bell, wife of Dennis Grandchildren- Naya, Liam, and Dennis Great-Grandchild- Greyson
Son- David Grisolia
Grandchildren- Celina, Justin, Tyler, Luciano, David, and Alyssa Son- Vincent Grisolia Grandchildren- Lucia Grisolia
Daughter- Ashlie Terrell, wife of Ryan Grandchildren- Ryan and Amelia
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A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other. That was the example our parents sent for all of us. They showed it in their love and daily actions. We admire and cherish these memories. Thank you dad for loving our mother so dearly❣️
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Wednesday, March 1, 2023
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I'm so thankful to have had such a kind caring big sister someone who was always there for me my whole life. I only wish I could have more time to talk and listen and share more of my life with my big sister my heart goes out to all who feel her loss but it was because of who she was and how she cared for friends and family and strangers that makes it all the more painful if there is a special place for kind caring loving people who Pass on she is there. I'm proud and thankful and grateful for all people who live and treat people like my big sister. This world needs many many more like her. Love your brother Oscar
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Tuesday, February 28, 2023
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My Grandmom was one special lady. She showered us with all her love and cared for us with everything she had. Every hug was always heart felt and when she asked how you were doing, you knew she really was concerned and cared. My family and I, are so incredibly thankful for all the time and memories we had with her. She will always be in our hearts,as source of joy and inspiration to us even in her passing.
Love always,
Travis,Chanelle,
Jailen,and Amaya Johnson
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Mom, where do I start. I miss you so much I just want to scream!! Everywhere I look I see something from you. You have given me and the kids so many thoughtful gifts but most of all you gave us so so much love. You have showed up for me and the kids every minute we needed you without a question I knew I could call you and you would be there. When my water broke with Ry you made it to the hospital the same time as me, you were so worried. When you got Ry his Batman costume you went looking for a joker costume so that you could dress up with him , you were the best mommom ever!!! I always knew you loved me but the way you loved my babies was so amazing to witness. You taught us how to love deeply. I remember “cooking” in the hot baths we used to take when I was little and when I was sick you would tap my back for what felt like hours to make sure I would breathe better. When my Chyna got sick you took her for me and nursed her back to health because you had a gift with dogs. Playing rag doll with you, you pretending to be a doll oh my god so many good memories I hope I never forget. I wish I could tell you how much of an amazing mother you were and I wish I could tell you how much of an even more amazing grandmother you’ve been. I don’t know how I’m going to do this without you. You were here for us always. The love we shared with you is irreplaceable. My last memories with you was food shopping, you said “ok bye” as soon as we got there then joking as we bumped into each other in the isles. I thought to myself we could start doing this every week. The next day you coming here to be with the kids because when you came in with me the kids went crazy, you couldn’t believe how much they missed you and I laughed and told you “of course they missed you they love you” and you said it made you feel so good to be with them. You played with the baby in the yard and I wish I took pictures I wish I captured those last memories. Now things are so different. All of my happy moments are also sad because we can’t share them with you. Mom I feel lost without you but I promise you I will not let the kids forget you!
Ry and me talk about you everyday! You would be happy to know you left an imprint in his heart he will never ever forget. From the mornings with our coffee and cheese to the nights when we just say how much we miss you and wish we could hug you.
Today when I was cleaning Amelia wouldn’t leave my side. It made me think of when I was little and would go on cleaning jobs with you. I’ll tell her that as she grows and all about you. I hope she enjoys her time with me as much as I did with you! From childhood to my adult life I still loved spending time with you. I only hope I can be that kind of mom with mine. Thank you for showing me. I love you mama always and forever!! I hope and pray what you believe is true and we see you again.
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Marc Pizzo posted a condolence
Monday, February 27, 2023
I got so many beautiful memories of my Aunt. I grew up with her in my life since I was a baby and lived next door to her and my cousins for many years. It would be impossible for me to pick just one memory everyone I have of her I love. Most of all I will miss how she would say hi to me. Every time my Aunt Mary would say hi sweetie and touch my face and give me a kiss and big hug. I will definitely miss her greets. I will always remember how big her Love was for all her family and I will continue to share her memories and Love.
Love,
Your Nephew Marc
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Lily Ann Serrano uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, February 11, 2023
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Morning coffee will never be the same without Mary. Her bright smile and stories will remain in my heart forever. She had a contagious kindness and strong will. Mary always shouted “Don’t mess with my babies” or “you go girl” or “I love you all.” The simplest pleasures in life brought great joy to Mary. Her enjoyment was giving her unconditional love to all her grand kids, children, and friends. She loved Salsa dancing with her son Vincent. Mary loved the kitchen: her pork chops and beans are a mysterious recipe that everyone loved and will truly be missed. I am grateful for the bond we created spending time around the kitchen table for after-school cookies and ice cream. She had an extraordinary ability to find happiness in herself, her hair was always flawless, her style was very much DSW. Her pleasant personality greatly impacted me. Her passion for crochet gave Lucia and me many blankets that we love and that keep her memory alive. I was so excited to learn her beautiful talent, crochet. Unfortunately, life took an unexpected turn, a heart-breaking one. Still her memories, talents, and wisdom will be passed on for many years to come. Mary, one day Lucy will have that puppy that you really wanted.
Love,
Lily and Lucia
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Thursday, February 9, 2023
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I’m so thankful to have had such a kind caring big sister someone who was always there for me my whole life. I only wish I could have more time to talk and listen and share more of my life with my big sister my heart goes out to all who feel her loss but it was because of who she was and how she cared for friends and family and strangers that makes it all the more painful if there is a special place for kind caring loving people who Pass on she is there. I’m proud and thankful and grateful for all people who live and treat people like my big sister . This world needs many many more like her. Love your brother Oscar
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Wednesday, February 8, 2023
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Mom,
This is one of the hardest things I’ve ever experienced. You were ripped away from us so suddenly, it still don’t make sense to me. You were the best mom in this world, we couldn’t have asked for a more loving, caring, selfless mother/grandmother who made sure we always had what we needed or wanted, even if we didn’t have it. You were the best cook ever, I loved eating all your food, and appreciate you always checking to make sure I ate no matter what time of day it was, it’s killing me I’ll never eat any of your food again. You loved your grand babies something fierce, and were there for every single one of them like the amazing grandmother you were. Im so grateful to have had a mother like you. You brightened every room you walked into, the most beautiful woman in this world! You never judged me for all the tattoos even tho you didn’t like them, whatever I got into or did you stood by every decision made and supported me no matter what! I love you and miss you so much days will never be the same without you here. Look over us all until we are reunited one day. ❤️
I love you always and forever,
David
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Celina Grisolia uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, January 14, 2023
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I was blessed to be born as her grandchild. My childhood memories with her have stuck with me for my entire life and will for the rest of my life. I will never forget the intensity of her love.
I loved going to her house in Philly, with all her little dogs scampering around. We both loved animals so much and always talked about our adorable pets. I had so much fun with her and loved being able to walk to the corner store with her and Poppop to pick out candy, or get ice cream with rainbow jimmies, as they’re called in Philly. She brought me so much joy. She was so interested in what I had to say and made me feel heard as a child. She gave the best hugs and cuddles. It was extremely painful to move away and be separated from her, I thought of her all the time and held onto all of those amazing memories.
When I was a kid I would ask her to teach me how to speak Spanish after hearing her talk with her mom. As I got older, I took Spanish classes for 12 years and now I’m fluent, and I was able to talk to Mommom in Spanish the last time I saw her. She laughed and said my Spanish was better than hers, and we ordered food together in Spanish. She was happy and said that she hadn’t been speaking it much since her mom passed away. It was so hard for both of us to say goodbye as I live far and didn’t know when I would be able to see her again. I will be so happy to see her again one day.
One time she gasped after getting my school pictures and said that she thought it was a picture of her. I hadn’t seen any pictures of her as a little girl until now and I also gasped, she was not exaggerating. I took some old pictures everyone has been posting of her and tried to touch them up, I hope I did them justice.
I love you so much Mommom, thank you for making sure I knew how much you loved me too.
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Justin Johnson posted a condolence
Saturday, January 14, 2023
What I remember most about you Grandma, is how loving and warm you were to be around. You loved your family unconditionally and you affected so many lives in a positive way. From Sunday dinners to haircuts, the memories are what help us cope during this difficult time. You left us suddenly and far too soon, but you will live on in our memories and in our hearts. We love you and we will miss you dearly.
Love,
Justin, Latahlia, Jayden, Jovanni, and Natalia
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Writing about my Mommom knowing she isn’t here is the strangest and most painful feeling ever. Something about her made me think she’d never leave us. I never even considered what it would feel like to lose her. She was such a beautiful and kind person. I have no negative memories of her, I don’t even think she was mean to me once. She always was gentle with us grandkids. She was there for us always. To say she loved her family is an understatement. There’s not an event in your life she’d miss. Graduations, weddings, the birth of your kid. You name it, she was there. There’s nothing anyone could do to make her miss a special moment in your life. Even small things she was so happy and excited over. We sent her a fall card of Ash, Greyson, and I and she reacted like we sent her 1 million bucks. After we sent her that card I missed her call and she sent me the best voicemail ever. I keep replaying it. She was so excited to finally see my son.
I’m thankful I have so many of her voicemails saved. Hearing her voice fills me with comfort and also makes me miss our calls we’d have. If she ever missed my call she’d leave me a voicemail and every time she’d say “hey hon I’m sorry I missed your call” she always felt so bad if she missed my call and even though at the time I never understood why she felt so bad just missing one of my calls, I now realize how important it was that we always called eachother back.
Another thing I loved about my Mommom was she always made time to dance with us. Even if she was in pain or couldn’t do all the moves she normally could, she’d make sure to get up and dance with you atleast once. She’d always talk to me while we danced and I always loved those little conversations.
I’ll also never forget how quickly she welcomed Ashley into the family. We will always cherish those double dates at the diner we had with her and Poppop. It pains me to know she won’t get to see Greyson grow up. She was so excited to speak Spanish to him. I’m so glad she got to hold him and kiss his head before she passed. I’ll tell him so many stories about her. I just wish we all had more time with her.
My heart feels scarred knowing I can’t call her up or go see her anymore but knowing how much she loved Jehovah comforts me deeply. I know one day I can see her again and I can’t wait for that moment. I can’t wait to introduce Greyson to her there. We’ll have so much to catch up on next time I see her, I hope she remembers how to dance in the new world because that’s the first thing I’m asking of her. So we can talk about everything she wouldn’t of missed for the world. From now on I’ll always look at turtles alittle longer, I’ll always put a mountain of whipped cream on my waffles, and I’ll always try to be a better person like my grandma was. I love you forever Mommom, I can’t wait until I can see you again.
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Friday, January 13, 2023
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A lot of our family stepped up for us when we lost our mother. But Aunt Mary stood out as a motherly figure when we no longer had one. Taught us to clean our ears, fed us, kept a roof over our head when our dad had to work night shifts in the city. The kindness of her children is a result of her relentless loving nature and I will never forget her! I love you Aunt Mary!
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Ryan Terrell Sr. posted a condolence
Friday, January 13, 2023
It is tough to write these words because of the sadness and shock; however, I have many fond memories that will live on forever. I will ensure my kids grow up with these memories and the love you had for us in their hearts.
Your unconditional love and caring attitude could be felt as soon as you entered a room. I recall always being able to be myself when talking with you with no judgment. I will miss most of all watching you play with Ry and Amelia (chooch) and the smile on your face when you saw your grands said everything without saying a word. I am thankful for the time spent, the memories made, and the love shared. Rest in Peace, your son-in-law Ry
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Sherry Heck posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 11, 2023
Pauline was a good friend and one night playing cards at her house I met her sister Mary from Philadelphia. She had recently moved to NJ. Mary was so warm, sweet and engaging, interested in everything I had to say. We were instant friends.
She didn’t drive, I would drive her to different places-she was not a fan of NJ roads and things being slower here. I was from Philly too and didn’t know the area, we didn’t have GPS. Mary would have the directions someone had given her and she would say go left, left and i would turn left then Mary would say no, no the other way. We would laugh until we cried. So much fun. At this time Pauline’s brother in law took an interest in helping Mary which turned into a beautiful romance. When Mary and I would go out she told me Jim was “somthercating” her. This is a beautiful word combination of smother and suffocate. I have since adopted this word as my own. We haven’t been physically close these past years but I have beautiful memories of our friendship and her children, especially GiGi and Mario and their 3 older sons. I know I will see Mary again in the new world.
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Robert Treherne posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 11, 2023
Dear Mary, I’m writing this because I have not told you this in person. I do realize that you are not among the living at this time but to Jehovah you are only sleeping. You are in his book of life. You are very special to Him and your family. Not because of your physical beauty but because of how beautiful you are on the inside. Years could go by before we talk and yet when we did it was like time had not passed. You always made me feel special. Then I found out you treated everyone that way. That made me love you even more. See you soon Mary. Like Jesus you have conquered the world. I hope to stay in Jehovah’s memory like you are. I’m still working on that. I love you. Sincerely, Robert B. Treherne
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Angela Elliott posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 10, 2023
I just wanted to say I have alotta vrery fond memories with Mary as a kid. Her daughter Gi is my Best Friend and cousin I love you both dearly. My heart and many prayers go out to you all. Love Angel Elliott and Family.
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Stacey Treherne posted a condolence
Monday, January 9, 2023
Over the years I enjoyed Mary’s warm smile and encouraging talks. She was known for being in the kitchen preparing food for the family. She made things with love. Best ingredient! When Rob and I were getting married and I was sooo young, “Whitney”, Mary’s granddaughter, was my flower girl. Of course Mario and Gigi helped with wedding plans. Mary had just met me, and she worked to make it a very special day. Many years passed and I was given another gift. This amazing gift was “Naya”, Spencer’s wife. Jehovah truly blessed me with a second daughter. My heart breaks for our family at this most difficult time. May you find some comfort in each other. Crying, hugging, and sharing stories.
With Love,
Stacey
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Debbie Evans posted a condolence
Sunday, January 8, 2023
I have very fond memories of Mary. From our camping trip to our yearly visits to Daniel’s while raising our children together. Mary was kind,caring and always had a listening ear. Her love for Jehovah,Jim,and family was beyond words. She will be sorely missed. She was a great friend and always had a listening ear for a troubled soul. I’m looking forward to seeing her beautiful,smiling face again. To her family “May the good memories give you comfort,as you grieve her loss, and you too can have the opportunity of seeing her smile again.” TILL WE MEET AGAIN, MARY.
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Sunday, January 8, 2023
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Mary,
Thank you so much for welcoming me into your family with open arms, you never hesitated that means so much, you are such a amazing beautiful woman, mother, & grandmother. I wish Alyssa got to make more memories with you she loved you, and she will never forget you we will be sure of that.
Love you,
Alyssa & Jenn
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Sunday, January 8, 2023
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Sunday, January 8, 2023
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Nothing in this world ever prepares you for a loss, especially one like this. My grandmother was a beautiful person inside and out. She was kind, giving, caring and always showed unconditional love no matter who you were. Anytime I needed her she was there. I remember when I was trying to find my wedding dress and was about to give up, she said let me look. She found the perfect dress. Let just say I said yes to the dress. I can go on and on about how great of a person she really was. I am going to miss her so much. I will make sure my kids know what a great person she was. I love you gram, always and forever. Until we meet again, I will save just a little piece of cake for you. Love you always!
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My Aunt Mary, all my memories of her are cherished and now treasures in my heart. She was always so sweet and kind to me, she never wanted to see me or anyone hurting. She was a fixer, once you were in her heart she felt compelled to take care of you. She had the ability to see in a persons face if they were sad and she would ask “are you ok, is everything alright” and she could always make me feel better. She was like a second mother to me, so easy to talk too. To call her a loving person is an understatement, her love was never put on like an act it was who she was.
My Aunt Mary was so stylish and just a naturally beautiful person inside and out. My husband, Richies old company had an end of year party and I was able to invite my aunt and uncle. For weeks before the party my aunt kept saying how she wanted a special look. She didn’t disappoint, she came with a fox fur, it was very glamorous. We had so much fun, we danced and had a lot of laughs. I’m so happy we were able to share that night. My aunt and uncle always looked adorable on the dance floor.
My Aunt Mary was so sweet to my kids too, Alex, Anthony, Christina, Samantha and Jenna they all loved her so much. I’m so sad my youngest Joseph didn’t get to meet her. She was just such a presence in the family. Everyone even the kids flocked to her.
Funny story, my Aunt Mary had a bird that loved her so much too…Sunshine. Sunshine was a small yellow cockatiel and I would laugh because this bird only imitated my Aunt. Every morning he would yell, “wake up Jim, wake up Jim” then around dinner time it was “you want a meatball, you want a meatball’. Even Sunshine loved my Aunt so much that he only repeated what she said. I always thought that was so great! I have so many amazing memories and experiences in life with my beautiful Aunt!
Every time I pick up a crochet hook I think of her because she taught me. I tried to visit her every week when she lived in Philadelphia, and one place we loved to go to was Loop the yarn store and plan our next project. Most projects only got half finished but I didn’t care, it was just so much fun doing that together. We would laugh when I made a mistake and had to start over because I missed a stitch.
My Aunt was an amazing mother and wife she devoted her life to trying to make her family happy and loved. Her family was who she lived for, my Uncle Jim was the love of her life and her children were her world, however she knew how much I loved her and she would include me as much as she could in her family activities. I am forever great full to her for that. I cherish the cooking lessons she gave me, I was never able to get my food to taste as amazing as hers but she never stopped helping me!
We both loved Victorian decor and I would bring the catalogs I got in the mail over to her house and we would plan were we would put the things we saw in the catalog. We never bought anything but it was fun just looking.
My Aunt loved Dr. Oz. So i surprised her with tickets to his show. We went to NYC to a taping of it. It was so much fun. We were so close to the stage. We went out to a nice dinner afterwards. My Aunt, Gigi, Renata and me drove up together and laughed the whole time. It was freezing but we had to look cute in case we were on camera. This was a small treat for my aunt. I could never repay my Aunt for all she’s done for me, but it was nice that we got to share this.
My Aunt Mary loved everything tiny. She had a beautiful sense of style, she wasn’t flashy, she was graceful and elegant with a pop of color on her lips.
My mind is full of so many wonderful memories, just sitting around talking and laughing was special with her. I loved her so much! I’m still in disbelief she’s not here.
My heart is broken over the loss of my beautiful sweet Aunt, but I know she is safe in Jehovah’s memory. She loved Jehovah very much and died a loyal servant of his and Jehovah never forgets his loyal ones. I can’t wait to tell her how much she meant to me and thank her for all she did for me!
I will carry her in my heart!
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Mary was kind, compassionate, and always easy to talk to. She was family. She always made a special effort with me and treated me like family even before I was. Every time I saw her, she made an effort to talk to me and would call me “Hun” or say “How are ya hun? How’s your family?” Mary would talk to me about how she was too, and I liked to listen because she was so genuine. Even from the beginning, when Naya and I first met, she was my biggest fan. She had a dream that Naya and I got married, and told Naya that she had to marry me because I was the one and she just knew it. She was a pillar in the family, and I really enjoyed our talks. I never thought those talks wouldn't be there anymore. I am thankful we had them, but I also wish that I could have had more. I know we will have more talks one day.
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My mommom, where do I even start? I loved being with her. She was like a second mom to me. When I was little, I remember crying and looking out of the back car window because I didn't want to leave her. “I want my mommom,” I would say. She loved Andrea Bocelli, and she would put his songs on and we would sing to them at the top of our lungs together. She always took me to south street in Philly, and we would pick out dolls or new bedazzled chanclas. She also taught me how to be street smart so I was safe while we walked in Philly. We walked everywhere, and when I stayed over, our favorite place to get ice cream was Jojos. She also loved circus peanuts, good and plenty licorice candy, and the big hard pretzels with her ice cream. We would eat those snacks together a lot. She would let me have a little coffee as a kid, and we loved dipping sweet platanos or ritz crackers in it. She also had a love for arts and crafts and taught me many things. Like how to sew and crochet. She would make my American girl doll gorgeous dresses and glitter coat my tap shoes. A.C. Moore and the pet store were our two favorite stores to shop in together. Or even Ikea for the cheap ice cream and cinnamon buns. When she would get a bath she would say she liked it really hot like she was cookin’, so that’s how I like my baths now too. There’s so much that comes to mind when I think of my mommom, and it’s amazing because all my memories with her are good ones. She was just the best. So much fun, and we laughed a lot together. She made any situation fun for us kids. I wish I could have hugged her and told her how much I love her one last time, but when I get to paradise and see her again I will do that. She influenced me to be the person I am today, and I will always think back on all she taught me.
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Friday, January 6, 2023
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Mary was the sweetest most loving person you could ever have the pleasure of meeting. Always kind, empathetic and generous. And so giving. Her hospitality was unmatched! You couldn’t leave her house empty handed if you tried, I even left with a cat once lol. She taught me so much! About style (she was always sharp lol) being empathetic and patient. And to never hold back from showing love. She was vocal and so free with showing love. Hugs, laughs, affirmations flowed from her always. She and my mother taught me the purest form of friendship. A true bond of love and support that my sisters and I try our best to imitate. There is not a celebration or tragedy that she was not present showing love and helping in anyway that she could. With all the pain I feel I can’t imagine how her family is grieving this tremendous loss. Mary will be loved and remembered for years to come, that type of love is never lost. I can’t wait to hug her again ❤️❤️
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Dawn Markiewicz posted a condolence
Friday, January 6, 2023
Mary was a great person she will be missed by many. Just remember all the great memories that you all have.
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Karim Kabia posted a condolence
Friday, January 6, 2023
Man I don’t know where to start she was so dear to me in fact I called her mom all the time she was a second mother to me. So loving and caring I remember days when I would ride my bike to the house and go hang with Vinny and she opened her home to me so much I felt like I was in my own house. The love she gave was so genuine and sincere. My condolences to the whole family I know this is a huge loss and she will truly be missed by everyone who she had an impact on in their life.
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Sandi Merryfield posted a condolence
Friday, January 6, 2023
Treasure your memories, Ashlie, they are a constant reminder of the goodness you come from. So sorry to hear this tragic news. Sending hugs! ♥️♥️
Jimmie, so very sorry! Prayers, love and hugs!
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Ana Burgos Dejesus posted a condolence
Friday, January 6, 2023
Comi Mary your a very special
Person in my life we share good time and bad times I we’ll Carry you in my heart love by many you we’ll never before gotten rest in pease love you always
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Thursday, January 5, 2023
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Mommom’s last picture taken, such a beautiful and kind woman. We miss her so incredibly much. Grey will grow up with all the stories of what a lively and resilient woman she was and how deeply she loved all of her family. We can’t wait to see her again one day.
With all our love,
Liam, Ashley and Greyson Bell
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Thursday, January 5, 2023
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Memorial Service
3:00 pm
Saturday, January 14, 2023
Kingdom Hall Of Jehovah's Witnesses, Erial, NJ
1754 Erial-Clementon Rd.
Erial, New Jersey, United States
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In Loving Memory
Mary Grisolia
1945 - 2023
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